This movie has deceptive depth. Its NOT for everyone, a bit of a niche play; not everyone will get. It's best suited for parents who take their role seriously & philosophically or mature children who are trying to connect with their parents' world view. Others are likely to feel like walking out early in this well crafted film. That said, we're part of the target demographic and I felt like walking out after the first 1/2 hour, but I'm glad we didn't. As the movie progressed, we saw much truth as witnessed in our lives and in the lives of others that we care about and felt there was a worthwhile message. The acting is rock solid across the board. De Niro proves, as always, to be a consummate professional. Drew Barrymore is her authentic self; who could want more. All other roles are very well played. The story has redemptive uplift, but much of the movie is likely too real for anyone who has a high maintenance need to have sunshine blown their way all the time.

Was totally unexpected story line....my husband and I thought it would be a feel good family holiday story...and in a way it eventually turned towards that direction. DeNiro was genius in his role....a personality that can be related to by many american fathers. It was a character that couldn't be over played....and he nailed it....I thought the author was very strategic in how he introduced each adult child's personal issue and later brought them all together thru DeNiro's acceptance. I'd recommend it to others to see.

A realistic movie about families growing older and children leaving their nests. Showed the frustrations of parents as their kids grow up and get too busy with their own lives and families and can't give the attention and love that parents expect. It also is a wake-up call to parents to be more loving and involved in their childrens lives while they are young and in need of love and affection.

Unfortunately,these errors probably cost this movie. The reason this is getting any bad reviews is because it is not at all what you are expecting, This family coming of age in the wake of the mother's death drama is exquisitely acted and original in the execution of a familiar concept. I say go if THAT is the kind of movie you are looking for. All performances were just right,and although there were a couple of slow moving areas,story keeps you engaged. I am not giving a Must Go, because it may not be "theatrical" or "edgy" enough for some to feel good about spending the money. Myself,I had no qualms and will see it one more tim. Bring tissues. DeNiro is outstanding.

I like the film because it was well done. Robert DeNiro is a gret actor and I enjoy all his work.